Divorce Camp's Lee Ho-seon advises, "If you don't want a divorce, you must show it through actions now"

Through video footage from the JTBC variety program 'Divorce Camp', the specific advice delivered by counselor Lee Ho-seon to participants for the recovery of their marital relationships has been confirmed. The video contains cases of couples experiencing conflict due to alcohol issues, the desire for recognition, and differences in communication styles, along with Lee Ho-seon's analysis of these issues.

"Psychological analysis of Lee Ho-seon: Filling loneliness with the desire for recognition and alcohol"

During the counseling process in the video, Lee Ho-seon analyzed the psychological state of a specific husband participant. Lee Ho-seon diagnosed that the husband in question places great importance on social face and pride, and is in a state where his desire to be recognized by others is very high. In particular, mentioning that the husband spends a significant amount of money on alcohol every month outside the home, she explained that this could be a typical pattern to fill the desire for recognition and loneliness. Lee Ho-seon analyzed that while the husband tries to establish authority within the household, he actually shows the appearance of a 'young emperor' who is desperate for recognition.

"If you don't want a divorce, you must prove it through actions"

Lee Ho-seon urged practical change from the husband who stated that he does not want a divorce. Pointing out that the situation is serious enough for the wife to consider divorce, she demanded that the husband show specific actions, such as wiping away his wife's tears. Lee Ho-seon emphasized that "it is not something you do with thoughts, but something you do with your body, something you do through action," noting that promises made only with words can be difficult to keep. In particular, she advised that immediate responses, such as comforting the wife when she is sad, are necessary, adding, "A fire is not something you put out later, but something you must put out now."

The wife's preparation for divorce and the difference in the couple's communication style

The wife's position was also addressed during the counseling process. The wife had expressed her intention to divorce if there is no change in her husband, and Lee Ho-seon pointed out that the wife still has affection left, to the extent that she worries about the future even after the husband's retirement. Furthermore, she mentioned that the reduction in the wife's nagging could be a signal that she is ready to leave soon. Lee Ho-seon pointed out the lack of common ground in conversation between the couple and suggested that the husband needs to change his way of communicating to a method of recognizing and cherishing his wife.