MiraniGorani's Honest Counseling While Eating Bongousse Rice Burger: "I Must Control My Own Anxiety"

YouTuber MiraniGorani listened to subscribers' concerns and delivered advice containing her own philosophy. Recently, through her YouTube channel 'MiraniGorani', MiraniGorani released a video where she provides counseling for subscribers' worries while eating Bongousse Rice Burger and soy sauce bibim guksu.

"Being good to someone might be a burden to them" Advice given to breakup concerns

MiraniGorani first spoke regarding the concern of a subscriber who felt lethargic after being notified of a breakup by a girlfriend. Regarding the situation where the partner broke up saying, "Let's just be friends," MiraniGorani analyzed, "It could be a reason made up because it is difficult to state the actual reason for the breakup." She continued, explaining, "The fact that I was good to them is subjective," and "My being good to them could be a burden to the other person, or it could be that the other person does not recognize my charm." Rather than falling into lethargy, she added that "the greatest revenge is living well myself," emphasizing the importance of managing oneself and showing a diligent way of living.

"Don't wait, go get it" Direct answers to dating concerns

More direct advice followed for the story of a male subscriber in his 20s who is struggling because he cannot gain interest from the opposite sex. MiraniGorani pointed out that the person in the story is facing a problem in that they are "just waiting to be chosen by the other person." She emphasized, "If you want to date, you must have the courage to directly express romantic interest and go get it." Furthermore, she warned against the attitude of lowering one's self-esteem by connecting the end of every thought to dating, saying, "You should not just open the floodgates to dating, but open the floodgates to people." She advised building relationships naturally by having plain conversations as person to person rather than adopting an artificial attitude.

"Anxiety is something I must control" How to relieve anxiety about the future

To a subscriber suffering from anxiety disorder regarding the future, she offered comfort based on her own experience. MiraniGorani suggested focusing on the present rather than excessive worry about the future, stating, "You should not be dragged by anxiety, but you must control the anxiety yourself." In particular, mentioning that comparing oneself to others through SNS can be a source of anxiety, she advised, "SNS only shows happy images, so treat it lightly and go at your own pace." She urged not to take life too heavily but to think lightly, saying, "I am the protagonist of the movie called life." However, she did not forget to give practical advice not to hesitate to visit a hospital if the psychological pain is severe.