Drama 'At Eighteen' Yoo Soo-bin lashes out at mother forcing Seoul National University, asking "Did you give birth to me just to show off?"
Yoo Soo-bin, a character in the JTBC drama 'At Eighteen', expresses strong resistance toward her mother…
Yoo Soo-bin, a character in the JTBC drama 'At Eighteen', expressed strong resistance toward her mother, who attempts to use her grades and career path as a means to satisfy her own inferiority complex.
"Did you give birth to me just to show off?" Yoo Soo-bin confronts mother's excessive passion for education
In the video, Yoo Soo-bin engages in a fierce confrontation with her mother, who pressures her to aim for Seoul National University despite her current rank being 28th in the school. To place Yoo Soo-bin in Hwi-young's math class, the mother attempts to create an educational environment for her child by utilizing connections and conditions, such as visiting the famous instructor Son Jae-young to make a request. In response, Yoo Soo-bin directly criticized her mother for using her as a tool to boast about her achievements to others, asking, "Did you give birth to me just to show off?"

The mother urges Yoo Soo-bin to enter Seoul National University based on social status and economic power, saying, "What if you live being looked down upon because you graduated from a university inferior to others?" and "What if you can't live in Gangnam?" In particular, she pushes Yoo Soo-bin by claiming that academic background and wealth must be 'weapons' for a woman to endure in society. Yoo Soo-bin rebels against these values of her mother, maintaining the position that it is enough to be accepted into the major she wants.
Controversy over preferential treatment and psychological conflict, the spark of conflict leading to stopping academy classes
Yoo Soo-bin joins Son Jae-young's class through Hwi-young's recommendation, but in this process, she struggles between the perception of 'preferential treatment' and the discomfort she feels herself. The way her friend Hwi-young treats her like a girlfriend and takes care of her within the academy brings Yoo Soo-bin discomfort in the relationship rather than a sense of achievement. Yoo Soo-bin cannot shake the feeling that she is taking the class through connections rather than her own ability, and eventually decides to stop taking Son Jae-young's math class.

Upon hearing the news of the class discontinuation, the mother is enraged, claiming that Yoo Soo-bin is damaging her reputation. The mother claims that her child's choice threatens her social standing, saying, "Because of you, I might not even be able to attend university alumni meetings." Yoo Soo-bin points out her mother's vanity, asking, "What's the point of going to Seoul National University and speaking loudly at a company?"
"Thank you for letting me live my way" Yoo Soo-bin's declaration and the change in relationship
As the conflict reaches its peak, Yoo Soo-bin stands up strongly against her mother, saying, "You don't need a daughter like me, so leave." Expressing extreme fatigue regarding her mother's attempts to control her life, Yoo Soo-bin shows her determination not to return home until her mother yields her will and apologizes.
At the end of the video, Yoo Soo-bin shows an attitude of trying to proactively decide her own life by breaking away from her mother's coercive educational methods. This appears as a scene that vividly shows the conflict of a teenager trying to find their identity and the image of parents taking the sacrifice of their children for granted for their own social achievements.
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